How to Avoid Labels and Labels in Relationships

I think finding this balance between seeking out a community to better understand yourself and to feel like you belong is not very easy. And not just use it as an excuse, as i mentioned earlier too, as a way to box ourselves in. I think we can think of something or some point where we have used these kinds of excuses. So one thing that i am trying less of is to read too much into the things that i am feeling  in order to avoid attaching even more labels to myself.