"I think consent is incredibly important, but most of the advances in relationships don't happen with explicit consent," he says. "The only real asshole thing that I think you kind of did here is that she made you feel uncomfortable and based on what you're kind of sharing with us, there was a part of you that was like, she made me feel this way." He adds: "It may have come off a little bit cringy and creepy... But along the way, it's perfectly reasonable as you time to be an ass somewhere"