The Importance of Connectivity

I'm trying to get at what are the feelings that give our identities and our... Why does it feel good to share a mindset with a group of people? What is it about that that gives us this sense of belonging? And so I would be wary of calling that sense of belonging a sense of wholeness, because those don't seem to be the same thing. That could go down a wrong, what we would say. It's part of the balance. You can't have them without each other. They're opposing. They're colliding or... For that kind of connection to be there, there is something out there that doesn't belong in the circle which gives it its feeling