How Do You Do With Being Single?

Ben: The best thing that would happen to me was I turned 31. In the church, when you turn 31, you graduate without honors from the same from the singles ward. And for me, that was like a really good time because it was like all the expectations that have been put on me were suddenly gone. When you're gay, it's either like nothing or nothing, right? You choose between which nothing's you want. That pressure feels so much heavier when you're under it all.