You Don't Have to Say That, Yo

i broke up with my boy friend after three years of dating because i was being wildly disrespected. He would get mad at me for my reaction to his disrespect in the first place. So i found cut it off. We tried again a few weeks after i moved out, to see if we could make it work since we weren't living together. But that was a fail and i need accountability in order for there to be forgiveness.