When you have both these external and internal forces telling you to be rational, then yes, you're going to be miserable. You're going to spend a whole lot of time and money undoing that rational decision when it reaches the point at which you just can't stand it any more. That might sound illogical, but when you look at the long term aggregate costs, letting the heart lead is actually the most fiscally responsible, most logical, most rational thing that you can do. Joe: How many people who are listening to this podcast right now are in the process of making a mid life career changeb as they were 21 because they were listening to what made sense, rather than