Taking a Girl Out of Her Comfort Zone

A lot of young guys who don't understand, oh, wow, I can evaluate someone in a way other than the things that they thrust forward into my face, you know? Well, one good thing in my experience is organizing a party together or doing any kind of hosting where you've got to organize food, beverages, invitation lists. Or organizing any kind of holiday visit with family, friends, staying with people or letting other new people stay with you. You're going to see how she reacts in an uncomfortable environment where she's got to sort of hold her own and make friends. And so there's really no place for incompetence or neuroticism to hide when you're doing that.