Don't Do It, but You Have to Do It

If i decide to give money to my friend, but an not do it. I mean, there's a sense in which when you go to confess it, it's a lesser evil cause,. at least you chose to do it. This sex why thomas says there're special virtues in this step. Caution and foresight are essential for the moral act of giving someone money. But even as you're doing something, like, shouldn't do that, because that's going to be really insulting to them or something? You can see how that would be insulting. That's actualy somthing that helps you when you're executing the act. The command has to kind of spread. So