A lot of people get sucked into that nd are ruining a big part of their life, you know? Just because you've been with some one for a x amount of time doesn't mean you take it to the next level. There's just no logic and no real strategic thinking or planning that goes on in these and these,. It's all fuf feel good, fluffy bullshit. And if you want a healthy relation, where you're not fighting and you're not arguing, and it's not constantly walking on egg shells and all aus. Indud there 're so many problems. In suck a, you need to become great and good and possess moral standard and quality and all