When i hand id in the manuscript, i always want to snatch it back. Modeling that vulnerability is as important as the things you're telling us in the text. Knowing that you will model vulnerability gives, feels like it gives me permission to model vulnerability, and that's humongas. I can't imagine how much pressure there must be to put on that coat of a persona and hide within it. You have all sorts of reasons why you would do something like that. We all do. And and seeing yourself in other people's eyes, and then believing how they see you, and just becoming that person could be a really dangerous path.