The Importance of Having a Safe Form of Intimacy

I don't honestly know how many guys I kissed as a teenager. It was never a big deal and it just that's the way things were in the 80s. And I do want to say I understand that some people take you really do want to save that kiss for the wedding. If that is a conviction that you have, go for it. For many people they find it helpful. But we also know some people who had a lot of sexual history and a lot of things happen where they were like, no, it's actually really important to me that you prove that you can keep yourself completely off of me. That really worked. Do what works for you.