Should I Argue About Past Trauma Within My Organization?

How has past trauma of yourself and others. And I would say this is like the hardest thing to address within an organizing circle. Should argument yourself within your foundation you need to be difficult and active within your organization. Do you have like an example? When I think about this I'm thinking about like discussing like. Like whether something within the organization reminds them of like previous traumas or like engaging in a discussion. This has happened within our organization where I unconsciously raise my voice or I just speak loud and that's that that becomes trigger something for people. But when I was thinking about how people engage with like certain topics and then they just can't engage with it because they just, it