Break Up Sex

It depends what you value in your relationship. If emotional intensity is the thing you really love about relationships, then you might be somebody that is in a series of relationships across your life or is non-monogamous. It's almost impossible to have a secure relationship that sustains an emotional intensity. There are a lot of reasons why intensity might feel like the most comforting and comfortable thing but there might be a lot for you to learn in the stability of a not-intense relationship.