The Number Two Component of an Instant Connection

The first two component of an instant connection or attraction is a the toxicbe vor that you do witness won't seem so toxic at first. This is because you feel so good with someone that seems to understand you so well. The deeper the connection, the more likely that you are in another deep space of wanting or needing. Having an instinct connection will often bring out a disfunction or an area that we need to work on. In other words, when you develop coping skills when you are younger, those same coping skills can make you feel safe meeting someone who has had trama too.