The Importance of Behaviour in Toddlers

I always think we expect so much of little kids when we tell them, stop doing that. You know, the important bit about behavior is that we don't say we want to stop you doing that. It's, we all work together to be doing things that are healthy for us to do in terms of how we treat other people and regulate our emotions. That's a much easier path. And anyway, the shame one was we used to remember the Titans because it's this great example of Denzel Washington's character coming down really hard on PD. But he shames him, he's using shame but another coach comes in and says, you know, I'm unconditionally on your side