In our interpersonal communication, i have found that people throw up smoke screens for what they really feel and really need all the time. If we learned how to communicate like this, we wouldn't have to kill each other any more. We haven't learned how to do that yet, but we can’t. Forward slash negotiate is a new podcast from essentialism expert Greg Macuan. The first five people to write a review of this episode will receive a signed copy of effortless.