Is Your Childhood Trauma a Factor in Your Marriage?

I don't really know what a successful relationship looks like or a successful marriage I suppose rather my parents got divorced when I was four. My mom's been divorced twice um and now she's fiercely independent and single her dad only got remarried last year after 20 years of being single he's just been remarried again, so that's pretty far off. When I was younger and the way that she raised me she's she's good now I mean somewhat good like we have a pretty good relationship but I think she was relatively toxic  when I was younger. She always told me I was fat and she always criticized my physical appearance a lot to the part of my sister developed an