Polyamory - How to Support a Partner in Conflict?

If you can create some predictability around those moments, then it won't feel like such a big deal to bring it up out of nowhere. I think either way, be in your integrity about it, right? Especially as you progress into polyamory, there may be times when insecurity comes up for you and there's conflict between your partner and another partner. You might feel the urge or tempted to bring up things that are going on in your relationship or use what their partner is currently saying to maybe fuel even your own arguments about the relationship.