Is Your Spouse Behaving Badly?

Psychologists have long talked about something called the fundamental attribution era. One of the hacts that you suggest is to re interpret negative behaviour from your partner in a way that's more sympathetic rather than critical. The kinder approach will make us happier in the relationship, and our partner will probably be happier too. And i'm not saying these are easy things to do, because we do have a default to explain other people's behaviors as elements of their character.