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Dr. Marisa G. Franco | How to Make Adult Friends (and Why They Matter)

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Anger of Dyspepsia Is the Single Most Difficult State to Recover From in Any Kind of Relationship

The negative spiral into contempt is the single most difficult state to recover from in any kind of relationship. Our brains tend to remember things more when they are highly emotional so what that means is that if I'm attacking a friend with anger of despair and like yelling at them screaming at them telling them how awful they are all the things they did wrong being very critical right that is fundamentally going to impact their view on the entire friendship even if we've been friends for 10 years. Conflict can be an act of love like researchers this is like funny researcher joke they have this from the anger orgasm trying to avoid the anger orgasm but another root word is illumination. For me it's like my body still feels weary

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