Dating - How Do We Help That Guy Get Over That Social Anxiety?

I actually had a lot of social anxiety when i first started am dating. And getting out there and meeting girls to the point where i was like, it was the most terrifying thing in the world. But just knowing that it's not a big deal. I'm just going to met this person, and if we dont het it off, it's fine. It wasn't the end of the world. Eventuallyy, i got completely over it, and it wasn't a big do any more. We initially got into this in terms of you asking me, did i send stock messages to every oh, yean ite man? You have to in some ways when you're on line