Is It Because Your Brother Is Two Years Older Than You?

I think if I had two kids with maybe like a four year difference or like a three year difference something bigger than just two years then I feel like they can provide the protection or like older sibling or for the younger sibling. So everything just felt like we're equals and there was never really a like super older brother protective feel from him because like he's still trying to figure his shit out while I'm trying to figure my shit out too so he doesn't have time to like figure his stuff out and take care of me right now. Yeah I think he definitely did try to remind me I guess but I don't know I the ages were so close in your head that like it wasn't