Are You Providing Value?

Tan says he has an element of ar earlier, i think a few years ago, I was very much concerned about the value that i was providing two social interactions. When chatting with someone whom i don't necessarily know very well, i sort of have in my lieand nd. And wan o exit this conversation before it gets to the point where i run out of things to say. It's not like, it's not just this anxietyof like, am i getting value? For me it's more the opposite: oh, man, this doesn't feel like it's going well. The other person probably thinks i'm really boring it. We've got a head thes now