How to Deal With Anxiety and Anger

i'm oscillating between anxiety from carrying us on my salary salary and anger from her for not looking for other means of employment we've talked about money before. last year when it was getting really hard i'd asked her to try to take up our jobs to bring in more income but she got upset with me. how do i bring up this issue again in the most delicate way possible? i don't want to be hurtful or unkind love you both marissa yeah marissa i too um i'm working on that matter effect kindness balanceUm can't say i'm passing can's say i'm doing great but the at first there you know remember when it was like your academic grade your