I Just Want Someone to Love Me

We need to say what we do want, not simply what we don't want. And then we need to use very clear language. We can s i want you to understand. What does that mean? How do we know whether the person is understood or not? I want you to love me. Too vague. We have to be much more specific. So in mapping out the four components the non violent communication model, we've settled but more about observation without judgment, expressing the feeling, connecting it with our needs. And now step for the request. It's the step that can actually bring some change. But they either tend to leave it out or aren't very clear about it. Can