Hookup Culture

"The rules of hook up culture prevent her from telling the other person she actually want a r like, oh, that kind of guy that hooks up with a girl and doesn't let go. That's not really a thing people talk about am versus, like, the girl who hooks up once and justnd, falls in love with you and never leaves you alone." "We so desperately don't want to look like that," says author Victoria Arbiter.