Should you tell a woman you're a virgin before you have sex? I don't know if there's one right answer to that. If telling a potential partner this would put you at ease or help address the performance thing, then it's fine not to tell her because you don't want it to become a thing and get in the way. You can always disclose this after the fact if that feels better. But if you do disclose this in advance, I would be prepared for any number of responses. Some people might go, wow, that's intense. And other people might say, okay, that's crazy, but no biggie. This will be fun. So just be ready.

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