This chapter explores the psychological reasons behind why some individuals struggle to genuinely apologize, linking it to self-worth and low self-esteem. Through relatable scenarios and humor, it illustrates how personal shame impacts one's ability to acknowledge mistakes and make amends.
Dr. Harriet Lerner’s work has transformed my work and my life. She’s a renowned psychologist and bestselling author who has been studying apologies — and why some people won’t give them — for more than two decades. In Part 2 of our two-part series, we share from a course together on her groundbreaking book Why Won’t You Apologize?: Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts. We dig into the “mischief of defensiveness,” the power of listening, and the secret life of the non-apologizer. We also take on one helluva role play where you get to hear me get schooled and learn a lot and get schooled again.
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