"I'm sick and tired of seeing fighter jet minded people living crop duster lives. And that's what you are, man," he says. "Every single one of you have the ability to be high speed, high performing,. make a lot of money, live a high quality life for you and your family." He adds: 'You've chosen mediocrity. You've chosen the path of least resistance' Men who don't achieve self mastery or put in the time and effort to achieve self mastery are the most depressed, anxious and pathetic men,' writes Riddell.