Your father's anger and depression grew, and he often left for months at a time. One day you came home from school to find your mother had all her teeth pulled out because they were hurting her. How were you able to make sense of this behaviour and keep any semblance of your centre? Well, that event that my mother did, that was after the accident with my brother. So i think she was ving a long, long fall. Why she decided to hurt herself? I don't know if that was a conversation with my father. You know, i said that thing about trama having an impact forever. But for myself, is an 11 year old girl who'd already seen