Some people swear by the 69 position, others love the comfort of missionary, some can’t get enough of doggy style, and plenty enjoy the view with reverse cowgirl. But here’s the real question… But there is one position that actually makes you feel the most connected, the most turned on, and the most satisfied.

In this Language of Love Bite, I break down what science, anatomy, and thousands of real women have shared about the most reliable position for her pleasure. Imagine it’s simpler than you think, and with just a pillow and some mindful adjustments, it can go from average to unforgettable.

We discuss:

Why only 20–25% of women orgasm from penetration alone
The role clitoral stimulation plays in reliable pleasure
How a simple pelvic angle shift transforms missionary into the most effective position
Why emotional safety and nervous system calm are essential for orgasm
The benefits of chest-to-chest contact, oxytocin release, and eye contact
How to use your hands (or hers) for clitoral stimulation during penetration
The secret sauce for creating connected, simultaneous orgasms

If you want to take this deeper, check out my book Sex Magic for a full guide to creating erotic intimacy that feels sacred and deeply satisfying. And don’t forget to subscribe to the Language of Love podcast so you never miss a bite-sized tip to level up your love life.

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