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Finding Pride: Tomas Davila and Ingrid Ebbesen

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The Importance of Telling Your Dad You Love You

"I kept this awkward distance with you because I was too scared that if I came out to you, you would never speak to me again," Tom says of his relationship with his dad. "We eloped without telling anybody because we had already watched the repeal go through once and we didn't know if we were going to have this opportunity again." After retiring from the Navy, Tom married Zachary in front of all their friends and family at a surprise ceremony.

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