The Importance of Context in Domestic Violence

In Colorado, they look at whether the victim would reasonably experience the fear of physical violence because of the nature of the threats. So in this case, it's so over the top. She got a temporary restraining order. She stopped going outside. I mean, I don't understand how this could be considered not a true threat. That's what the justice was asking. If we adopt each of your standards, what do we lose? What's the harm?