In Episode 597 of Passion Struck, host John R. Miles sits down with Dr. Gordon Flett, a pioneering psychologist whose decades of research have shaped our understanding of mattering—the feeling of being seen, valued, and significant.

Dr. Flett, author of The Psychology of Mattering and Mattering as a Core Need in Children and Adolescents, explains how mattering is distinct from belonging and self-esteem and why its absence—what he calls “anti-mattering”—can lead to burnout, depression, loneliness, and even hopelessness.

For full show notes: https://passionstruck.com/gordon-flett-the-urgent-need-to-know-you-matter/

In this profound and deeply personal episode, John and Dr. Flett discuss:

The difference between mattering, belonging, and self-esteem
Why feeling unseen or insignificant is a public health issue
How fear of not mattering drives perfectionism and overachievement
Why giving mattering to others is just as important as receiving it
Strategies to rebuild mattering after loss, failure, or transition

This conversation will change how you see yourself—and how you show up for the people around you.

Dr. Gordon Flett is one of the world’s leading researchers on the psychology of mattering. A recently retired Distinguished Professor of Psychology at York University, he is the former Honorary President of the Canadian Psychological Association

Connect with Dr. Gordon Flett: https://health.yorku.ca/health-profiles/?mid=3719

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