Is There a Myth About You?

I think there's kind of a misunderstanding to where people think, oh, well, you're either happy or you're sad, like two states. And I don't know what the answer is to somebody's coming from that point of view even if they care about you. A lot of times in the world, it's like you do something and, you know, that might increase the chances of something happening,. but it doesn't necessarily guarantee it.