If you want to be successful in a situation like this, the first thing to understand is what are the emotions that arise as this stuff happens? And more importantly, how do they influence your behavior? Because if you're being driven by emotions to do particular things and they're not on the same wave length, they're going to be taken aback by what you're doing. So ideally she would be able to prompt the conversation,. But instead what we do as we just ghost people, cause that's like what happens nowadays, right?So i'd say, yes, i think it's time to take responsibility. You have these fundamental needs that have never been met that allows you to be secure