379 - Relationship Science for your Friendships (and Vice Versa)
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
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How to Respond to Bids in Relationships
The healthiest relationships were ones where people responded to each other's bids about 80 % at the time. Sometimes that's not just them going out of their way to do something for you cause they think you need it, but it could be a bid for connection. And so it's not like, oh, no, no, don't put yourself out. Sometimes saying, oh, whow. Thank you so much is the more effective way to add to that connection because it's about the bid and not so much about the actual thing.
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