How to Divorce Negative Associations With Your Identity

KW: How do you divorce the negative associations with your identity and how do you sort of build that family? Sam: Your parents aren't going to are clearly not being there for you right now. KW: You don't even have to ever tell them if you don't want to, because it's all about you and your agency or relationship to your identity. If they're going to be homophobic, if they cling to an outdated fucking archaic religious institution that hates gay people, their moment of empathy will come.