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I Love It When You Tell Me No
Women ideally would want an integrated male who has learned to be familiar with his aggression and can use it when necessary. So, so men that are familiar with their own aggression, have integrated it, and then from that place of relative strength, can then choose to be kind. I'll give you two examples. My second wife used to say, I never feel safe... You never stand up to me, never stand up for me. And he just started barking at her from about, you know, 20, 30 feet away. He said, I don't want to ever think I have bigger balls than my husband. She said, I love it when you make decisions because she feels safe.