When will farrell was in middle school, he qualified for the gifted and talented after school enrichment programme. He told his mam there was a conflict - could only do one or the other. She looked at her son and she said, it's up to you. You decide. And will chose square dancing. To a parent, there is an obvious choice. There's not even a discussion. But our kids don't know anything about decision making. They don't know about weighing pros and cons. We talked recently about not getting in the way of our kids primal inclinations. When they feel pull toward something, the worst thing you can do as a parent is to prevent them from going