Asian Fetishism

I think as I got older, I saw a lot of like, it just became more prevalent to talk about Asian fetishes. And we even had someone in our friend group talking about this was a few years ago,. He was saying how he's attracted to Asian women because they're obedient. But when he said that, I was just like, I do not know, I'm Asian. Yes, that's super upsetting. The cat calling has always been there and I kind of got used to it. It's not even like a problem anymore but for me, it's like one.