
1535: From Advice to Authentic Connection by Shana Olmstead
Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting
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How to Move From Advice to Genuine Connection
He is ambitious and proactive. If he didn't like something in his life, he would change it; if it was hard to do, he would work harder. In his relationship, this pattern looks like him giving her advice and trying to help her grow and change. When you feel the urge to give advice, or help, or fix someone's problem, check in with yourself first. Tell them that you are working on not helping as much and just holding space for them.
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