The idea of retaining that there's grayness is very scary, because then how do you categorize that in the atobilal trusting of your environment? I think some of luke's trama starts from thinking it more about the family aspect of things. Is am in the starwar is universe in general, it seems as though everybody gets ripped from their family of origin. So automatically you start out in a place where you don't have an attachment to anyone, and you have to let go of that. Or maybe you were never able to have an attachment, like lucan lea are removed, and anikin is removed from his family. And ray is raised without her family