The Metaphor of Non Duality, You Know?

I prefer to understand things in a metaphorical way, rather than go into the philosophical. I don't really have a problem about aros as long as when we talk about aros, we're not in this lovey, lighty, newagi realm. We're talking abouti includes the darknesswe and the death and in the who tragedy of existence as well. That intuitively, arin luminosity was the tthat that makes complete sense to me. But it is still a category error, maybe.