Overwork can definitely be connected to this feeling of fear and uncertainty. Research shows that working more or working harder doesn't necessarily mean that you're doing better work. I think it creates friction between our relationships with our colleagues and coworkers. It pits people against each other, the idea that you're out to outwork everyone.
Ambition is complicated. Yet the messages we receive from an early age are simple: “Winners never quit.” “Reach for the stars.” “Follow your dreams.”
But like most simple messages, reality often paints a very different picture. Long hours that lead to burnout, or individual striving that results in loneliness.
Rainesford Stauffer ran up against these realities. And, in her work as a journalist, she spoke to others who did, as well. That’s what led her to rethink what ambition could be, and to write about it in her book, All the Gold Stars: Reimagining Ambition and the Ways We Strive.
In this interview, we talk about the roles history and religion have played in our ambition. We also discuss times when embracing ambition is a good thing. Ultimately, we try to uncover unexamined assumptions that can drive how we live our lives.
Episode Links
There’s No Such Thing as Getting Ahead by Rainesford Stauffer
Seeking Self-Esteem: Construction, Maintenance, and Protection of Self-Worth by Jennifer Crocker and Lora E. Park
Too Much of a Good Thing: The Effect of Contingency of Self-Worth on Goal Setting by Xi Chen
Properties of Thirst by Marianne Wiggins
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