The Importance of Believing Your Partner Says No

I struggle with actually believing my husband when he tells me he's not mad so it's like asking the question but then also believing the answer. I'm just curious is does that have anything to do with me yes exactly and that's been really helpful to get the confirmation of like no this has nothing to do with you. Just knowing that it's not about me is what's important for my soulYou're touching on something incredibly important - separating out how he's feeling and how you're feeling right. If a partner says no or it's not the right time or whatever just like inquiring like okay it's totally fine  isn't your job to either psychically know or to