Pancake day is all about making your own pancakes, probably ruining the first one. My favourite pancakes are covered in nuttella, basically, like lots of nutella. Most couples have a slightly difficult time on valentine's day. Usually there's pressure on the man to come up with some special romantic plan. Some people just shun valentine’s day completely and reject it. If you don't need anything for Valentines Day or anniversaries, do something special anyway. And that applies to birthdays and christmas as well.