Coffee and Cream

This is a common barrier to the success of Muslim marriages in America from my cases. Of course counseling helps talking about it with people you trust can help. If you have siblings in an enmeshed family and your siblings acknowledge it, sometimes the siblings have healthier relationships between themselves then they do the parents. Even mom and dad are co-dependent on each other in some unhealthy way and that gets passed on to the children. This is one of the reasons why I'm sharing this today. It's a serious thing and it sets us up for unlikely succeeding in relationships if we come out of enmeshed co-dependent unhealthy relationships in the first place.