i'm from the midwest, as you know, and we both took the ss a t once. Our parents didn't do one goddamned thing to help us. We learned all our three kids went the same primary school. And there was a scandal because it was found out that one of the kid's parents had helped him write an essay. So i remember that so much that when i was raising my own kids, i did exactly the same thing. It's a great thing to do, because it encourages curiosity. A cursis lots of great things.