You're Not as Feared as You Think, but You Can Be Courageous

There's a hint there that if you want to be a full fledged person, that you have to manifest a very large number of traits. And so i want to go into that idea a bit. The first thing i want to talk about is some of the things that we've learned about what happens to you when you go to a new environment. If you like, let's say that you're ah, very socially inept, and you don't know how to introduce yourself or to make an establish the initial parts of relationship with anyone? And so then you start putting yourself in situations where you're required to do that. It doesn't seem to me to be that you get less frightened...